Top Ways to Find Dates if You're a Single Guy in Your 60sToday's singles - The Good Men Project

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Top Ways to Find Dates if You're a Single Guy in Your 60sToday's singles - The Good Men Project

Top Ways to Find Dates if You're a Single Guy in Your 60sToday's singles - The Good Men Project

Posted: 20 Jul 2019 03:30 PM PDT

Today's singles are all on the web no matter their age. We'd like to touch on meeting women online because that's your safest bet but would also like to briefly discuss some of the more traditional ways to meet potential partners.

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After 20 or 30 years you've found yourself single again, and ugh, on the brink of dating. Dating over 60 is still pretty much the same as it was back in the day only everyone is older now. There is still butterflies, rejection and STDs, but most of the action doesn't take place in college dorm rooms. Today's singles are all on the web no matter their age. We'd like to touch on meeting women online because that's your safest bet but would also like to briefly discuss some of the more traditional ways to meet potential partners.

#1: The Web

Whether you're looking for someone close to your age or not, the web is the place to meet single women of all ages, backgrounds, and interests. You can go ahead and try some of the mainstream sites or apps and see how they work for you. Make sure to state the age group you're interested in under preferences, and you'll only see the women that fit that category. Put up a profile picture that clearly shows your face and create a short bio to introduce yourself. Once you do that, you can start browsing the site or app for women that seem like they would be a good match for you. Obviously, the algorithm of the service you sign up for will do the same, but it also helps to be proactive and do your own search.

#2: Matchmaking

Matchmaking is a perfect way for people past the age of 50 or so to meet, forge friendships, and potentially start relationships. Even though most of your friends might be coupled up, they still know you best and can set you up with someone who'd be perfect for you. Tell a few people from your inner circle that you'd like to meet someone, and let them work their magic. Especially include your female friends or relatives in this mission because they're much better at matchmaking than men. Keep an open mind and prepare yourself to be pleasantly surprised.

#3: The Park

Playing with dogs and grandkids puts a smile on everyone's face, and it's a great conversation starter. When the weather is nice, hit the park and meet local women living near you. When you get out of the house and actively search for dates you're bound to meet someone eligible to become your romantic partner. Borrow a dog from a friend if you have to, and keep in mind that dog people are very friendly and chatty. Compliment her pup, ask for a vet recommendation, and chat her up to see if she's interested.

#4: Singles Cruises and Resorts

Both men and women travel alone and a singles cruise or resort is a great place to meet them. Strike up a conversation by asking her if she's there for business or pleasure. Lots of great love and companionship stories begin in foreign countries, just make sure you check the age of visitors so you don't end up stuck with college kids. Even better, you can choose a cruise line that is geared toward the older population like Princess or Holland America.

#5: Volunteer Groups

Women love to help out in the community and often organize fundraisers and volunteer groups for the needy. Volunteer your time and help clean up the neighborhood, hand out food packages or collect used clothing. The women in the group will see you as generous and giving, which are very popular traits in men of a certain age. Also, volunteering will help you expand your social circle, and increase your overall chance of finding the right match.

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Ladder keeps evolving | Local Sports - The Star Beacon

Posted: 20 Jul 2019 04:48 PM PDT

SAYBROOK TOWNSHIP — What started out as nearly 200 matches played in 2012 has evolved into more than 400 and still counting in 2019.

The tennis ladder at St. John School has become a staple for county players in the summer who want to play fun, yet competitive matches.

"The kids get to know each other," Heralds coach Todd Nassief said. "The idea is to get matches played."

The six county schools with tennis programs — Lakeside, Edgewood, St. John, Geneva, Jefferson and Conneaut — have all had representation at the ladder over the summer.

"There's been a lot of matches played," Nassief said.

The ladder isn't just inclusive to high school players, either. Junior high and college competitors have also seen time on the court.

Nassief said the number of participants has been in the 60-70 range throughout the summer. Doubles matches are usually played on Tuesdays and singles on Saturday mornings.

"It gives everyone the opportunity to play each other," he said. "Saturday mornings is new this year. The kids have a lot of fun."

Players don't always go against competitors of their own age, skill level or gender.

"It's always great to meet new people and play people with different skills and backgrounds," Lakeside junior Kate Toth said. "It helps overall to get competition."

Toth, who is starting her third season as the Dragons No. 1 singles player, is appreciative of the support she receives from her fellow competitors.

"We really have a big tennis family," she said. "Most of the people I can text anytime and we go out and play."

After years of playing in the All-American Conference, Toth is looking forward to starting anew in the Chagrin Valley Conference in just a few short weeks.

"It will be completely different," she said. "You don't run into as many racquet club players. They seem to be more rec players."

Likewise, St. John senior Katie Parise is ready to get the season going and using the tennis ladder as preparation.

"It gives me people to compete against," she said. "I can learn different skills from others."

Parise played at second doubles last season and is expected to challenge for first doubles in the 2019 season.

On the boys side, Lakeside sophomore Joey Varckette will have to wait until next spring for the high school season.

But it's never too early to play different competition.

"It's an opportunity to play players I don't think I would play," he said. "I get to play a lot and the ability to play keeps me going."

Varckette added the winning is nice, but "getting the experience is better."

With Ryan McClure missing the 2019 spring season due to an injury, Varckette moved into the No. 1 singles spot for the Dragons.

"With Ryan leading (next year), I'm looking forward to that," Varckette said.

Since 2012, 19 players from the ladder have gone on to play collegiately.

"The kids are enjoying tennis," Nassief said.

In the recent boys season, six of the eight Division II sectional seeds from Hawken were from Ashtabula County and played in the ladder.

The top four singles seeds were St. John's Cayleb Haynes and Dave DiSalvatore, and Conneaut's Ryan Laitinen and J.T. Vendetti.

The top doubles seed was Geneva's Isaac and Nathan Palinkas, who eventually qualified to state for a third time.

"That is really great to see," Nassief said.

The ladder is scheduled to end Aug. 3 and by that time it's anybody's guess how many more matches will be tacked on to the total.

Nassief is glad the participation is solid and the players are benefitting.

"It's developed into a nice tennis community," he said. "I've had people from all over the country asking me about the ladder and how to get it going."

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